Promiscuity in women
Is the age of promiscuity in women upon us? Articles I’ve read recently indicate a shift in women’s values may be taking place allowing for more freedom of choice regarding sex, even more than men, researchers say.
A December article in Mail On Line, based on a More magazine study, for instance, compare real life for women to the popular sexy show, Sex and the City.
“Being bold and brazen in the bedroom won Carrie Bradshaw and her friends a legion of female fans.
But viewers who think the ‘anything goes’ sexual antics in Sex And The City is fiction should perhaps think again.
Life, it would appear, is more than a match for art.
Young women are becoming more promiscuous, with more sexual partners than men, researchers have found.”

Life imitating art?: The sexual antics of Sex And The City aren’t fiction after all
The article goes on to describe some other surprising statistics:
· “By the age of 21 they have had sex with an average of nine lovers - two more than their male partner.”
· “A quarter have slept with more than ten partners in the five years since losing their virginity - compared with a fifth of young men.” “
· “Young women are also twice as likely to be unfaithful, with 50 per cent admitting they have cheated on a partner - half at least twice.”
· “Yet if their man was caught being unfaithful, 99 per cent of the 2,000 women surveyed said they would show him the door.”
Now that’s a double standard!
Other interesting tidbits include:
· “The survey follows a U.S. study earlier this year that found teenage girls who watch a lot of TV shows with a high sexual content, such as Friends and Sex And The City, are twice as likely to become pregnant.”
· “And only 32 per cent believed love to be an important factor before having sex. Seven out of ten confessed to having had a one-night stand and a fifth had enjoyed more than five.”
· “Only 1 per cent said they would wait until marriage to have sex.”
· “One in four said they would marry for money whilst 39 per cent would sleep with their boss for a promotion. And 27 per cent would have an affair with a married man, while 14 per cent would sleep with their best friend’s partner.”
The study, sponsored by More magazine, also found women crave more sex, but still believe men enjoy it more than they do.
Lisa Smosarski, editor of More, suggested that there will be no turning back for today’s sexually confident young women. ‘Our results show that after decades of lying back and thinking of England, today’s twenty-something women are taking control of their sex lives and getting what they want in bed. And why not?
‘Women today have increasingly busy and stressful lives juggling study, jobs, friends, family, career and their relationships,’ she said.
‘Sex is a great and free way to relax, unwind and have fun in today’s fairly stressful society.’
The study was carried out to launch More’s safe sex campaign, which started that week, back in December.
It found that almost a fifth of the young women surveyed had contracted a sexually transmitted disease while 21 per cent had been persuaded by a man not to use a condom when they wanted to.
Miss Smosarski went on to say: ‘Whilst women aren’t embarrassed to take the lead in the bedroom, it seems they’re not so forthright when it comes to contraception.’
So readers, What do you think? Are women as a whole becoming more wanton and promiscuous? Even more promiscuous than men? Do you agree women are becoming more promiscuous? If so why do you think it’s happening. I’d like your take on this.
7 comments:
I wonder if it might be a generational thing. Some may not agree, but I have heard it said that some women don't go into their "Sexual Prime" if you will, until their thirties. Which can, for some, awaken all sorts of desires and fantasies they hadn't realized they had.
Then there's another way to look at it. Because sex is so "out there" in the media, movies, books and so on one might wonder if seeing it more makes a woman more aware of the things that see wants.
It's no secret that while a woman is reading a spicy novel, no matter what the genre, that it affects them. Between the movies, TV and books being more daring and explicit with presenting sexual tension and sex scenes I wonder if that is not adding to the untapped desires of many women.
Now that I have rambled on as to why I think what I think I will answer your question.
Do I think that women's mores are loosening up?
You betcha. And I think it's a good thing! Why shouldn't women be aware of what they like, enjoy and desire. And as far as the adventure goes, well, who doesn't like a little adventure? :)
Hi Nicole, Thanks for your insight.
Yes, I believe that's true about women peaking sexually later in life. After a fairly dormant sex life my own wife came alive in her late forties. It could be physical or it could be mental with women finally getting comfortable with the idea of sex and her own sexuality.
Isn't it ironic that women's desire is on the upswing, as men's seems to be waning?
Good point about sex being everywhere too. I'm sure that is a factor, however it doesn't explain why women's sexual adventurism exceeds men's now.
Someone said on Twitter that women who read romance novels have sex 74% more than those that don't, however, when I asked for the source of the data, (with this blog in mind) he never responded.
I think it's definitely possible though.
Thanks again, Dee
Dee,
The difference between the women's drive being on the upswing while the man has slowed down is quite simple. MURPHY'S LAW, just kidding.
But I do agree with you on the romantic novel data. Reading the written word which describes in detail not only the physical aspect of a couple while they're making love but can also describe the emotional aspect to it as well is what is missing for a lot of women. I think it can give them that level of - I'm not even sure what to call it - longing maybe, no that's not right. Regardless, I think there is something about the written word in romance that women connect with, which in turn awakens all sorts of desires that normally they wouldn't be aware that they posessed.
Just a thought :)
Nicole
I have to admit to being worried about the statistics you've quoted. With all the information out there about safe sex and the means available to avoid disease, I cannot believe woman don't follow the advice. I don't know that woman are getting more promiscuous or are more willing to talk about it. It may be that there is more opportunity today with most women in the work force. As I get older I am finding that certain sex acts are more arousing than I would have ever thought but I'm still too scared to act on them because of the guilt surrounding them from my upbringing. I am trying to overcome those taboos but it is hard.
Hi Nicole, I don't doubt what he said is true, it's just I never found out the basis of the statement.
Dee
Hi She said, I know what you mean. Ideas drilled into you at an early age are truly hard to overcome. As for why this is happening, it's probably a combination of a dozen things. I'm like you. I say good for women's newfound sense of freedom.
Dee
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