Saturday, January 10, 2009
My sex column at Nuts4chic will officially start running again in about two weeks. I'm currently working on an article about spanking. That brings to mind an earlier article I wrote about fantasy roleplaying in the bedroom.
What kind of fantasy do you have in mind? Would you like to be a pirate and his nubile captive? How about a king and his maidservant? You can even be a dominatrix while your partner plays the submissive. Two popular forms of roleplaying are doctor and patient, and guard and prisoner.
The different kinds of costumes available are sexy and loads of fun. I've seen many different types of "naughty nurse" costumes. Scrubs are cheap to buy, and they look adorable on your "patient". Give an examination using massage oils and a butt plug. For some extra sexy fun, tie down your submissive and run a feather or ice cube along his bare torso. That kind of play is a form of bondage play called sensation play, and lots of people who aren't that much into bondage enjoy it. You can spice up your very vanilla sex life with a little sensation play.
Why would anyone want to try out sex fantasies? There are lots of reasons. They want to further explore their sexuality. They want to add some more excitement to their sex play. They may like the feeling of helplessness that comes with being a submissive. Others like fantasy roleplaying because they want to improve their social skills. Some find their lives to be rather dull, and fantasy roleplaying brings some excitement to their lives.
Try on a persona that is different from your day-to-day persona. Are you normally shy and reserved? Play the dominatrix so that you take control of your fantasy situation. Do you bark orders and make major decisions at work? Take on a submissive role so that you can relax and let someone else make all the decisions. You can let go and be at your partner's mercy.
Now, choose your characters. Many sex toys stores sell costumes for roleplaying, so you can buy them there. Lots of these stores have online shopping, so you don't even have to leave home to find what you want. Choose the doctor and nurse outfits for some sexy medical roleplaying. Or choose the pirate and maiden. Spanking is popular in roleplaying, and you can either use your hands, a spatula, or a paddle or flogger whip especially made for roleplaying sex games. Do you want to be restrained while your partner teases you with a feather or flogger whip? Then buy some bed restraints or plush hand and wrist cuffs. You can take on many different roles depending on what kind of mood you and your partner are in. Enjoy some roleplaying sex games and have some good sexy fun!
If you are looking for sex toys to add to your fantasies, go to my sex toys category on my blog for ideas. If you'd like to read some of my past Nuts4chic articles, to go my Nuts4chic category on my blog. Nuts4chic is located at this link. Keep an eye on my blog (The Countess) in the upcoming weeks for news about my Nuts4chic sex column.