As the whip connected again she tensed and tipped her head back, letting out a frustrated scream.
A hand tangled in her hair, and held her head, Garin whispered in her ear. “That’s it, little one, scream, cry, beg, let me have it all.”
Jessie moaned as he slid the whip across her clit, then let go of her hair. She waited for another blow from the whip, but it didn’t come. Instead she felt the vibrator being removed. The bed bowed as Garin got on the bed, knelt between her legs and lifted her hips. She moaned again as he entered her, and began to move slowly in and out of her.
“Please,” she begged, she had to have some release. “Faster… harder.”
He complied, and she felt her body contract, her muscles spasm. Garin came with her, holding her hips when her body went limp, so he could finish. As he let her down, the scarves untied and released her. She half turned, and removed the blindfold, to look at him. He grinned at her and lay next to her.
(Excerpt from Jessie’s Dirty Little Secret)
Now that you’re all hot and bothered, here’s my question…Why do we erotic / romance writers put so much influence on the orgasm?
I mean in real life a woman doesn’t have an orgasm every single time we have sex, yet in our books the heroine is expected to. The readers expect it. Granted in Jessie’s Dirty Little Secret, Jessie is having sex with an incubus so he wants her to orgasm. But in contemporary book with just a normal guy and gal, why?
Also now a days, reader don’t always want stars exploding. They want it straight.
The thing is an orgasm isn’t always mind blowing, some times it’s nothing more than the vaginal walls contracting and relaxing. Like in Jessie. Yes there are those that leave you trembling and unable to move. Those are the ones we all strive for, and a few luck woman get them, over and over.
Perhaps I just answered my own question, we write them so we can have them. Even if it’s just in our mind.
~~ Jade Twilight~~
Love prefers Twilight to daylight.
So fondle my pages, and I'll turn you on.
17 comments:
That's why it's called fiction. Thin, perky boobed bodies, studly well-hung men & mind-blowing sex aren’t always attainable in real life. However, it's great to fantasize about.
When I first saw the title for your blog I thought, "Jade has lost her mind!" lol...it's sort of like that g spot thing. I don't care if I have one or not. lol...But you know as for writing, we honestly have to be over the top a bit in order to project the emotion and action needed for our readers to be there~~to feel it.
If she simply typed in. She had an orgasm. That would not work. We've got to describe every single tingle. And that may mean going over the top. I mean after all in reality they only last a few seconds, but what seconds they are!
But when you put it on paper an orgasm can take a bit of time. And that's great. You turn your reader on, make them want more. I've written sex scenes that are 12 pages long. Been so turned on my some of my own stuff I've had to take a cold shower~~and well, maybe had to do other stuff too...lol...shhhhh...don't tell anyone!
Love this post, girl!
You know it's funny, I started reading romance when I was 14, and my mom told me that all of it was fake, and women didn't really have orgasms every time...that made me really sad for us females, why is it the man can come every time but the woman can't?
And I know those of you who say you don't care if you come every time, can't really mean it. I mean think about it, what if you did come every time? You'd never settle for less.
I guess I'm one of the lucky ones that found a man who agrees with me, and always make sure I get mine first.
I think some of the reasons we write it is bc it makes the man more caring that he wants his woman to finish, and we want our readers to see that this is a totally hot guy who is excellent in bed. A guy the reader can fall in love with and wish to fall in bed with too.
LA- Your absolutely right that's why it's fiction.
Tess-
The juries still out on weather I've still got my mind, lol.
You make some great points though, I would be put off if a author wrote She had an orgasm. But why can't the charater be disappointed, have to guy be a dud. Yes the reader might not like it but it could add to the suspence of finding that mind blowing orgasm.
Anonymous- You are a very lucky woman. Your right too, we do want the readers to fall in love with the man or woman in our books.
It's all part of the fantasy, imho. Sometimes romance is read so that we can escape in to a world unlike that which we live in IRL. We want to pretend, even just for a few moments, that we are the voluptuous, sensual heroine and are having mind-blowing sex with the super-stud. Or at least, we're happy and pleasured. It's a departure from reality. Without the orgasm to cap off the experience, we'd feel bereft. Why read that in the books when we can get that in our own bedrooms? *LOL*
So yeah, bring on the gushy, sticky, cheesy orgasms. What's wrong with living vicariously through the characters for a bit?
Carpe Noctem,
Des
Des- Cheesy?
Super yummy excerpt! I'm totally adding this to my tbb list!
*hugs*
Paige
There are women that have never had an organism, some that have them all the time and of course some in between. Regarding the former, I have feeling it's a mental thing in many cases which might go back to upbringing. To make my point, here's a quote I borrowed for an epigraph on chapter seventeen of my new book.
“Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and you’re going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love.”
—Butch Hancock
Dee-
In my reserch I've found that it is very much metal as well as phisyical. If a woman can't relax for whatever reason, she's probably not going to be able to orgasm. I've read that the biggest problem is that you need to let go and many can't do that.
Love the quote by the way.
Dee/Jade,
I agree completely with the mental part. A friend of mine is married to a guy she hates, she's never had an orgasm when they've had sex, and I believe it's bc she doesn't like him...it could also be that it only lasts a very short time, and that he is not interested in giving her pleasure...
I do have several other good friends though with great marriages who have 1 or 2 per sex session.
In the exact words of Tess, I honestly thought you lost your mind lol. But thank goodness, it was a prompt.
I do agree some women have them, some don't. For whatever reason the viewpoints range and vary but when you have one, whoa nellie! Thank goodness for the man in my life because I too would have thought orgasms was like Atlantis. Mythical and non-existant.
But with writing, whatever erotic genre, it isn't JUST the orgasm, but that path leading to it. You feel more, sense more, you're in the moment. And if a writer can bring those moments,emotions and sensations on the page, that's writing.
So are orgasms all that?
Propped here with a half written manuscript, Apple Jacks in the tummy, and my hottie love asleep next to me (what can I say you write inspirationally Jade), I'll quote the Lord of the Rings character Gollum and say "Yeeeeees my preeeecious."
Great Blog Jade!
I ask, does the orgasm drive a point and forward the story?
My answer is a resounding yes because I write erotic romance.
In books the first time is good too.
I was way too young 14, when I had sex the first time. It didn't hurt much, but it didn't feel like anything either. He, my 16 boyfriend got mad becasue I just laid there and didn't move. I didn't know I was supposed. I wasn't good, it wasn't bad, it just wasn't.
Now a year later, I was introduced, to a 19 year old, who really could make me wet just hearing his voice on the phone. But even then I didn't climax every time.
The year, I was 14 in 1962.
I think you hit the nail on the head, so to speak, Jade. We as authors write about mindblowing orgasmns because it makes the fantasy complete. Sometimes as authors we have to present reality, but the best version of reality we can imagine ;)
Thanks Cindy. You're right we as writers are only limited by our imagination.
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