Before the era of the internet and instant access, swinging couples mostly used personal ads in newspapers or specialty magazines and snail mail letters to find each other and set up liaisons. With the onset of on-line swing websites and instant messaging, an entire new world opened up for couples seeking other couples – cybersex.
Is cybersex a benefit or a drawback for the couple who wants to swing? It opens the door for endless flirting that can tantalize and entice, and there’s no doubt that by itself, it’s safe way for the curious couple to spice up their sex life – not much different, perhaps, than reading a hot erotic scene together, though definitely more personal.

Jen and Brett Andrews, in our Swinging Games series, are frustrated with couples who only want to flirt on line and disappear when it’s time to set a meeting. They’re anxious for the real thing. Here’s a peek at Jen’s exchange with a couple she and Brett hope to meet – find out if she succeeds in Swinging Games: Hookups, released today at Extasy Books.
Grinning at the instant messaging screen, Jen nodded.
You guys sound like lots of fun, Linda had written.
Jen hurriedly punched the keys. You guys do, too. We love your pics.
Thanks. Hope they aren't too much for you. And thanks for opening your private pics for us. We particularly like the one with you discreetly showing some nipple.
Don't know how discreet that was, but glad you like it.
Tom and I have a bet on as to who gets first dibs.
The women usually play first when we get together. Though that's hardly a rule.
Sounds good to me. So did you have a favorite pic of us?
Jen's brain turned to mush and she quickly flipped through the pics she'd copied. They were all stunning. Very erotic. Much more explicit than hers and Brett's. Yessss. She hit the backspace to remove the extra S’s. The one with the blonde eating you and Tom in her from behind, doggie style. The soft focus makes it amazingly erotic.
Ummm. Nice choice. Would you like to trade places with Ellen—the blonde, that is?
Jen scrunched her shoulders together, but that didn't help her aching nipples. Wasn't that answer obvious? She hesitated and settled her fingers on the keyboard. Then she saw that Linda was typing again. She waited.
Hope that wasn't too bold, but Tom and I have talked about that. After Linda's husband took the pic, he joined us and I took him in my mouth. Do you think Brett might like that?
Not too bold, Jen hurriedly typed. And yes, Brett would like that—we’d both love it.
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